Assalamualaikum w.b.t.
Maybe I'm not used to talk bout love, relationships but then today I feel that I must post about this.
Some relationships will be blessings, others will serve as lessons.Either way, never regret knowing someone. Everyone you encounter teaches you something important. Some people will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you; but most importantly some will bring out the best in you.
Lately, there are some of my friends just maybe first time fall in love. So there's some is quite good with their partner but then some are not. There's a couple that what I can say , there's good in studies, religion but then somehow they have changed. They're not changing into better but into worst. They started to date or clingy whenever they're free. Senang cerita setiap masa free, anda akan melihat mereka berdua. Oh My Gucci! Doesn't they feel bored of each other. Because for me, we don't have to meet each other frequently if we had text-ed / contacted each other every day.
Besides that, what do you think are some reasons some people seem to feel a need to showcase their relationship and make it look like this happy, perfect, fairy tale type love? I've noticed that a lot lately on Facebook and social networking websites mostly. Personally, seriously I just don't get it. I mean, yeah put some cute pics of you and your man on Facebook, but all that extra stuff people do like sending each other songs and putting details of their relationship on blast.Also posting romantic things on each other's walls that, in my opinion, would be more heartfelt if it was written in a letter or softly spoken in your ear. Instead of reading it on your Facebook wall where you can't even hear the way that person says it or see the look in their eyes. I don't see the purpose in putting some things on display. "Why would Facebook need to know _____ about me and my man?" is how I feel lol Like...why do some people seem to want an audience?? Bercinta diam diam sudah. Seriously it's better like that. Lagi sweet.
I’ve made a million and one mistakes in relationships. I’ve expected and hoping too much. Or not asked for what I needed in fear of rocking the boat. I’ve been competitive. I’ve been suspicious. I’ve been dependent. I’d like to think what redeems me from all these mistakes is that I’ve also been honest.
Relationships are not easy. They mirror everything we feel about ourselves. When you’ve had a bad day, the people around you seem difficult. When you’re not happy with yourself, your relationships seem to be lacking. That's why I'm quite scared to be in relationship. Yes. You can say that I'm paranoid.
Never mind if you're paranoid because sometimes it's really help you. Yes. It's helping me in my studies. In concentrating in studies, what I mean. But it doesn't mean that I'm not in a relationship. I'm building it right now. In a healthy way. Hihi. Pray for me.
Quite long already.
Sayonara, my lovely bloggers.
2 comments
Yeeaaayyy, you have started blogging back, lame tunggu, haha. Oh, and it's a nice story or perhaps facts. Really2 like my situations too. Best of luck neesa :) (A.T.)
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