There are things that I should proud of instead of being ashamed. Listed as below. 

1. Listening to your intuition.
2. Respecting and standing up for yourself.
3. Making your own choices/ living your own life.
4. Taking time for yourself/ investing in self-care.
5. Feeling and respecting your own emotions.
6. Following your heart, and investing in your dreams.
7. Letting go of the past (that’s not who you are now)